Silly how people get angry when the truth comes out, isn't it? Go ahead and hide behind your false sense of comfort and continue thinking you are the only people on the planet. Funny really, these people are the lowest of the low and have serious issues with reality setting in. Fools. Read a book of philosophy and relax. Ponder about the 'almost' perfect family you think you have created under false pretense on a foundation of false truths. No-one is perfect to say the least but those who think they are really get me laughing. In all honesty you are a problem that your community will reject sooner than later despite the seemingly 'supportive' circles you think you roll in. Guess What? I know your secrets because your 'friends' did nothing but prepare me to deal with your shady, ignorant and ridiculous false sense of reality that accompanies your erratic behavior. Yes, your friends! Seriously...learn to realize that you are not as smart as you think. If your goals include P&L's that make no sense, loss of capital through botched labor coordination and sub-par food then y'all are doing great. Here in the real 'social' world the goal is not to screw people over for your personal gain. Tips for creating a productive environment in a culinary setting include but are not limited to: minimal amounts of jailhouse 'swastika' tats, dope fiends, thieves, liars and other forms of low-life. Slander is spoken and Libel is written. Also, evidence exists that you might not want released to your contemporaries. At the end of the day we all make mistakes but how we deal with those mistakes is what will fortify or dissolve our character. There is plenty of time to come to the light or you might choose to continue into darkness. I would however advise against petty comments and empty threats when dealing with emotional content but unfortunately some will not be able to help themselves.